How Long Should You Wait to Call a Girl After the First Time You Have Sex with Her?

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J in Tallahassee, Florida writes...

Hey Hog,

Thanks to all your great dating advice videos I've really improved my skills with women! I met a pretty girl at the bar and took her home the same night! When should I contact her?

I like the girl but I don't want to seem clingy or desperate. Should I wait a few days to play it cool?

- J in Tallahassee, Florida

Play it cool?

You entered her body!

It's not like you shared a lunch and a hearty handshake!

With a new girl, if you want to see her again, contact her the same day after you part ways.

You don't need to have a long conversation and in this case, a text message is totally fine -- assuming you both had a fun time.

Send her a little note, something NON-sexual. Ideally, you want her to get it before she talks to her friends and they make her feel like a slut.

That way she can say to them (and herself), "Aw, he already texted me something sweet. OK, I didn’t skank out, this might be the start of something."

Keep it very simple. Send a text like, "I had a great time with you. You're fun to talk to. I'll give you a call soon. :) "

Then you can call her with voice in a couple of days or when you feel like it, but really don't wait more than 3 days because then she'll start to think that you only want her crotch pocket.

BAD TEXT MESSAGE TO SEND HER AFTER SEX

"Thanks for the sex. Appreciate it."

or

"Last night was great. You look really good with your ass in the air and your face smooshed into my pillow."

or

"Damn, girl! Your vergerner juice is stankin' up my sheets!"

Remember, people tell themselves a story to rationalize their actions. What you say next influences her story.

Did she have a fun night that was a one-time thing? Was it a night of passion that might lead to something more? Was she totally out of control and did something she should regret and feel bad about?

What do you WANT her story to be? Help her write that story by what you say to her.

HER: Once upon a time, there was a Prince who turned out to actually be a horny toad! He didn’t call me for 3 days after sex and I hope this toad CROAKS!!! Theeeee End.

She'll think about your night differently if...

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