Dating Advice: Relationship Advice: How to Stay Married (Or Improve your Long Term Relationship)

by me, HogWild

K in Indianapolis writes...

Dear Hog,

I have been dating a great guy for over a year and we've talked about marriage!  

We really enjoy each other and we always seem to work out whatever difficulties we have.

I am nervous about this sometimes though because I have already lived through a divorce and more than 1 blah-bad relationship! What do you advise for making it Great Over the Long
Haul?

Thank you too for helping me laugh about relationships because keeping a great guy is tough if you forget to regularly breathe!

- K in Indianapolis

Here are 5 Mega-Important Musts to Keep Your Long-Term Relationship Awesome

#1 - Every day it’s your CHOICE to be with this person.

And it’s their CHOICE to be with you.

Each morning when you wake up together you may even want to ask your partner, "Would you like to be my boyfriend today?"

Or, if you're a SQUIRREL dating a hamster ask, "Would you like to be my cute fuzzy plump mammalian life partner today?"

The key is if you're going to choose it, choose it fully.

This means put in the EFFORT.

You COULD slack on your appearance, but if you CHOOSE to be with this person, then choose to keep up the awesomeness.

You COULD get lazy and not plan fun events anymore and just sit on the couch. Or do dinner and a movie every weekend. But keep the spark alive by IGNITING sparks! Put forth the EFFORT that lights the fire. Keep feeding the fire or else it will die out. And then there will be no more toasted marshmallows!

YOUR RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES TOASTY MARSHMALLOWS THAT ARE CRISPY ON THE OUTSIDE AND DELICIOUSLY GOOEY ON THE INSIDE!

#2 - Make Love Lists for each other.

Ask him to make 2 lists for you.

List 1: What things do you do (or can you do) that make him feel loved.

List 2: What things do you do that sometimes make him feel unloved.

Then make those same 2 lists for him.

The more honest the lists, the better. The point of this is to understand what makes each other happy. Over the long-term, you need to keep doing loving things for each other.

Sadly, it’s easy to forget the little everyday things that make our partner feel loved. Like pizza. And bl0w-j0bs. ... And dressing up as a pizza delivery girl and complimenting his sausage and... I've said too much. hahahahah

These love lists are a good reminder of what you both value. Love lives in your actions. And these lists are the recipe!

CHEESY GUY: I've got a recipe for lovin' and it includes a dollop of whipped cream, plenty of heat, and a PINCH of ME! Ooh, my butt is scrumptious!

You can't just assume what YOU value is valued the same amount by someone else. For instance, to me, when a girl cooks a nice meal, that feels loving to me. But to another guy, it might feel like a small gesture. That guy might value something else much more. To you, holding hands might mean love. But for him to feel the same loving feeling might require a kiss. On his jammy. While you're feeding him chicken wings.

OK! Enough about me! hahah

#3 is very important to keeping peace in your home and your heart. It's called...

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