Dating Advice: How to approach a girl when another guy is bothering her

When looking for a girl to approach, use your EYES! Don't just look for a girl who is "hot", look for a girl who is OPEN to meeting someone.

Yes, when you're super skilled, you can easily approach ANY girl in any circumstance, but until then... look for opportunities.

One such opportunity is "The Save." This most often happens in a bar or nightclub but could take place anywhere, even a café or park or bus or classroom...

GRUMPY OLD GUY: Or in the game room of the Senior Center where some fella is playing Monopoly with her time and staring at her Chess! Bah! I oughta splash my prune juice in his ear! But around here, I could be tried for manslaughter! His hearing aid might electrocute him!

You will notice a girl who needs to be saved by observing her subtle body language.

She may be avoiding eye contact with the man, her lips may be closed tightly as she nods to his questions, and her arms will either be folded in front of her OR... waving wildly as she screams out, "HELP! I'M TRAPPED IN AN IRRITATING PERSONAL INTERACTION!"

Other subtle body language hints a girl will give to indicate she is not enjoying her current conversation partner are the classic, "slicing the wrists movement", the "head in a noose pantomime", and a slight of rolling of the eyes... after she has shot herself in the mouth with an imaginary pistol.

The guy talking to her is usually leaning towards her while she leans away to avoid his particularly painfully long nostril hairs. You know, the kind that threaten to come alive and strangle you! The kind that look like wild vines of the forest where green monkeys swing. Awww!

The guy might be dressed inappropriately for the venue. Perhaps he is wearing a bulky winter hat with ear flaps when everyone else is wearing a tuxedo. Or perhaps he is wearing a wreath on his head because he believes he is Julius Caesar.

Sometimes when a girl needs to be saved from a bad interaction she will look around the room, trying to make eye contact with a "normal" person. If this is the case, be as normal as possible while returning her gaze. So be sure to tuck in your tongue and pretend that you're not a huge pervert with self-inflicted brain damage caused by years of sniffing the air conditioning unit.

So how do you approach?!

Walk over using your "normal person" walk. So don't leap at her like you're a flying superhero and tone down your pimp stroll. Remember, she doesn’t want to replace one undesirable conversation partner with another, so be conservative. You can let your crazy shine through after you have established yourself as an interesting and mentally stable person.

Step 1: Be sure this is not her boyfriend or her boss or someone she "HAS" to stay with.

After you and her have made eye contact and she appears to be in need of saving, walk up and whisper in her ear, "Hey, is that your boyfriend?"

Her response will tell you all you need to know.

Most likely she will say, "Lord no! Ew!" Then you go to Step 2.

If he IS someone she has to talk to, she will tell you, "Ugh no, he's my boss." At that point you can decide if you want to continue or let her suffer. haha

Step 2: Remove her from the conversation.

Here is how to remove her from the conversation...

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- Next time you're out, look for a mismatch couple where the girl's face has the look of extraordinary boredom, like she's yawning so wide she could be a snake ready to swallow his entire skull or her face is twisted in pain as if she's holding in some booty gas.

- Make eye contact. If she signals for help, maybe she blinks the Morse Code for S.O.S. -- then approach with relaxed confidence and save her by..

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