People value things that are rare.

People tend to take things that are abundant or always there, for granted. How many times today did you say, "Thank goodness I have clean water to drink?"

But without clean water, your life would be very difficult and soon, you would die. Die! You would be dead!

The human brain puts more value on things and people it perceives as difficult to obtain.

Therefore, be less available to women.

You are like toilet paper. If she always has toilet paper, she will treat you like poop. But when she's out of toilet paper, boy does she wish she had some!

Before she was complaining that you weren't sensitive enough or strong enough or that you lacked fluffiness or that you stopped up the toilet, but now she really misses you!

Yes, you are toilet paper! Because now she realizes she can't even wipe her ass without you!

NOTE: That analogy was as accurate as it was disgusting. Thank you. Thank you very much.

Be the first to get off the phone. When you're in that early dating phase, don't hang on her all the time. Make your time together awesome and fun. Then give her some space and time to miss you. Not 6 months! Just enough time that she realizes that her life is more enjoyable with you in it!

YOU: We had an amazing time together and now I'll play hard to get by not calling her until her 97th birthday. That'll show her I'm not desperate! heh heh.

Fast forward to the future...

YOU: Hello, remember me?

HER: Hold on, let me turn up my hearing aid! Is that you Billy?

YOU: You remembered!

HER: Why didn’t you call me! I thought you liked me!

YOU: I DO! That's why I'm calling you NOW. I was going to invite you to an amusement park.

HER: Well that would be tough to do considering that my body is now frozen in a laboratory and I'm only a head floating in a glass jar.

YOU: Oh you did that, too? We have so much in common! Tell me what cupboard you're staying in and I'll roll my face on over!

Being scarce works for a different reason when you approach a girl you don't know. The reason is because many humans -- especially attractive women who are constantly being approached by dudes -- have a fear of getting into an annoying and boring conversation with someone they have no interest in.

GUY: Hey sweet lips, my name is Jimmy. Jimmy Toolshiner. What's your name?

GIRL: Scanning for douche-factor... rating clothing, grooming, hygiene... there is a 98% chance that talking with this man will give me the same pleasure as snorting gasoline and then putting a cigarette lighter to my nose hairs.

GUY: You realize you're saying that out loud?

GIRL: Yes. Yes I do.

Of course, you’ve watched my dating advice videos on how to be extra interesting and how to show off your awesomeness through conversation, so you WILL get her attracted to you but she doesn’t know that yet. So here's the trick:

When you first start talking to her, act like you're only going to talk to her for a minute. And that’s true. Because if she's dull, you will leave.

So tell her that you can only talk for a minute because you have to get back to your friends or you're on your way to the grocery store or you're about to leave or...

NERD BOY: You're out past your curfew and your mom gets very worried if you come home late! Chicks dig a guy who lives with his mother because they know he's saving up to a buy a cool motorized scooter with a sidecar!

You can also increase your chances with women with your body language by...

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- In a neighborhood coffee shop, you might approach a girl who is studying by saying "Hey, I have to get back to work on my laptop in a minute but I wanted to tell you that..." And then you tell her your conversation starter.

- Once you're in a relationship, it still pays to be scarce. Of course you need to make plenty of quality time. Don't abandon your girlfriend! The way to strike the perfect balance to keep her attracted is to...

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