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L in Joliet, Illinois writes....
Hey Hog,
I love your dating advice videos! The membership is great and it's helped me more than I even expected!
My problem is that my boyfriend keeps saying hurtful things to me and even though I constantly open up to him about it, he keeps doing it!
His excuse is "he blanked out and doesn't know what he is saying" or "that's how my family raised me." Who cares?! I just want him to stop!
Thanks!
- L in Joliet, Illinois
REDNECK GUY: That's how MY family raised me, too! In fact, my mom named me Moe. And my middle name is Ron. My name is Moe Ron! Yee-I-was-born-stupid!
What's crazy is that most of us realize that if your partner slaps you in the face, that's wrong. But what about when they slap your emotions?
When they stick a knife in your emotional heart and TWIST and TURN and PLUNGE, making you wish you were DEAD!
That is ALSO wrong.
You must not tolerate this behavior.
An apology is not enough. They need to DO SOMETHING to make it up to you.
They also need to not do this again or else you will have to protect yourself.
Protecting yourself could mean leaving for a few hours or days or letting them know you need time to think about how they are treating you. It could even mean ending the relationship.
TIMES TO END THE RELATIONSHIP
- when your partner is verbally abusive
- when your partner is verbally persuading another human to undress
Girls, you have power in your tears. Most men, if they care about you, will soften when you cry. Showing your emotions is NOT a weakness, it's your strength. Sometimes, this is the ONLY thing that gets through to a guy. If he's hurt you, show him with your tears. Nothing crushes a guy more than realizing he's hurt the girl he loves.
Expect for smashing his testicles with a big can of soup. ... Thus creating Maztah Ball soup... with his chicken noodle!
Guys, your power is in your discipline. Do not allow a woman to speak to you with disrespect. If she does, you say, "You will NOT speak to me in that tone. NEVER use those words with me." Then you can leave her alone to think about her actions for a while.
You will know this was effective if when you return she is either very shy and sorry or if she welcomes you with a big hug telling you that she was wrong.
You will know it was NOT effective if when you return she is happily eating Chinese Food with her new boyfriend.
When you're ready to have a heart-to-heart conversation about this behavior, try saying it like this to your girlfriend or boyfriend...
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- After your girlfriend says something hurtful or your boyfriend is verbally abusive, they must apologize, promise to stop this behavior and then for you to know they are SINCERE about changing, they must...
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