Very few humans are really aware of their behavior. Even fewer humans are aware of WHY they behave the way they do.

Men do plenty of strange things, but in this dating advice video I want to talk about a really common thing that WOMEN do.

See, there is a game women play that they subconsciously want you to win.

But they try oh so hard to bring you to your knees!

Get off your knees, boy! Stand tall! Like a giraffe with good posture! Ummm, yeah!

The game is about power.

Oh, the mind games!

WORST MIND GAMES PEOPLE PLAY

- Monopoly Your Time: Convince your partner that not spending every minute of the day together means they don't love you!

- Scrabble the Meanings: Twist their words against them!

- Boggle Your Mind: Who can bring up the worst mistakes from the past to use against them today!

- Connect 4: Find 4 random events to contrive a pattern that proves they're cheating on you!

- Clue: The aim of this game is to never express your feelings directly. Give only hints with your passive aggressive remarks!

and...

- Candyland: Feed your partner junk food until they get fat and undesirable to anyone else but you, then make them feel bad for being that way!

Too many relationships become a struggle for dominance.

Now, dominance does not mean dictator. Dominance does not mean bad.

Simply, in most relationships -- even in your relationships with friends -- one person is the more dominant one. This is the nature of the human animal.

The same person can be happily dominant in one social group and happily let someone ELSE be the dominant one in another.

With romantic relationships, it's hard because these days most cultured men have learned to respect women and that's good.

Back in the day, men were more dominant in most every area and they abused this. This failure by men caused women to fight for their rights. And this was justified and good.

But now, some of us have let it go too far. Most women -- deep in their hearts -- want the man to lead in their relationship.

THINGS WOMEN WANT DEEP IN THEIR HEARTS

- to feel beautiful
- to have a family
- to own those new open-toe leather heels with the rhinestone buckle from Italy

A man should TREAT his lady by being her leader. He should shoulder more of the responsibilities. He should be stronger physically, more disciplined, more protective, more willing to take risks, more courageous, and ideally, more of the provider.

The Level 10 Douche Bag Man orders his woman around. The Level 10 WUSS Bag Man takes orders from his woman. The Level 10 GOOD Man serves his woman by taking the leadership role.

He is the primary decision maker. He makes NO decision that hurts his girl. He ALWAYS takes her feelings into consideration. He takes the blame when things go wrong. He gives her the credit when things go right.

Why should a man take on this burden?

Because it FREES his woman to feel the full being of her feminine nature.

Why should he care about that?

Because it makes her trust in him and adore him. It gives her reason to RESPECT him.

Most guys desire a loyal woman who respects him, adores him, and trusts him to take of business.

Most guys really don't like it when the woman talks back, is rude, and questions everything he does because she thinks he is an incompetent moron with a pinch of mental retardation.

So what does this have to do with the games women play?

Duh, only EVERYTHING!

Most women want a dominant man SO badly that they will challenge their man... ALL THE TIME. They will continue to challenge his authority and his power until he DOMINATES her or until she wins control.

If she wins control, they both lose. Because she is now with a weaker man. She loses respect. That causes her to lose attraction to him. He loses confidence. He acts more like a boy. This makes the woman act more like his mother. Now you have a mama's boy. Ladies, is that REALLY what you dreamed about as a little girl?

So girls, if you are fortunate enough to have a strong man, encourage him to stay that way. Stop beating him up. When you have a man's heart, you're way more powerful than you may ever know. A strong man is tough enough to defend himself from outsiders but not from the inside attacks of his beloved.

And guys, when your girl challenges you, this is exactly how to handle it...

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- Prove yourself stronger than she. Tolerate no crap. Don't play into her world of drama.

- If you don't show her enough strength, she will challenge you over and over again. So you must demonstrate your strength by...

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