J in Cleveland writes...

It is hard for me to meet women because I'm ugly. Several women have told me I'm unattractive or not cute or just friend material. How do I overcome this? I know I'm not a 10 and I go for the girls who are not 10s either... and still no luck. What should I do?

- J in Cleveland

Well... how ugly are you? Some girls can forgive a nose that’s been broken a few times if you tell them it was from a motorcycle accident or from defending your grandmother in a bar fight. Grandma gets crazy at da club!

But it might be tougher if you’ve got some sort of reptile skin on your face and your left eye is all drippy and your forehead looks like it was in a collision with a hammer.

In other words, do you look like you should be wearing a helmet while riding a short school bus on your way to the zoo?

Yes, it will be difficult to get pretty girls if your tongue is too long to fit in your mouth so it kinda flaps over the side of your chin. Yes, it will be a challenge to get dates if your height causes every waitress to assume you want to order from the children's menu.

WAITRESS: Hi, little boy! Would you like to order a Junior Grilled Cheese Sandwich? Or maybe a Peanut Butter and Jelly Sandwich?

YOU: No!

WAITRESS: Oh, kids and their temper tantrums.

YOU: I'm not a kid!

WAITRESS: Of course not! You're a big boy! Big boys like the macaroni and cheese in the shape of dinosaurs!

YOU: (evil look) What KIND of dinosaurs?

As a guy, do your looks matter?.... Yes. ... But not as much as you think.

There are SOOO many other factors that women consider when deciding if you're attractive.

As a guy, when your face or body is not the most attractive it doesn’t rule you out. It just means you won't be able to get girls with only your looks. You will need to TALK to them and WIN them.

Will some girls rule you out? Sure. But with women, a lot of them are attracted to many things besides your looks such as your confidence, humor, success, power, style, leadership, honor, physical strength, caring nature, your scent, your voice, your artistic abilities, your social skills... so many things besides your looks.

MEAN GIRL: I like a man who looks like he belongs in a soap opera. But YOU look like you belong in a singing opera! Because you're fat. Very fat.

NOTE TO OPERA SINGERS: I know not all of you are fat. That would be ignorant. It's just the talented ones who are fat.

JOBS WHERE I PREFER A FAT PERSON
- opera singer
- baseball umpire
- pastry chef
- seatbelt tester

We can all think of highly unattractive famous men who always seem to have very pretty girlfriends.

So let's say your looks are a 1. The lowest. You need to show her all your awesomeness in other areas! Believe me there are PLENTY of beautiful girls who would rather date a below-average looking guy who is a great person and highly confident than a dumb pretty boy with no skills and nothing to make him special.

And this girl won't think you're ugly. She'll say you're sexy. That you have rugged looks. Women can find some strange things beautiful. hahha. You can be that strange thing! haha

That said, you can certainly fix the easy stuff. Here are 9 super easy changes that will help you IMMEDIATELY...

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- When a girl says she wants a guy with something in common she is not talking about breasts.

- A lot of hot girls would be very happy to be with a caring, faithful man who is great in bed, speaks with confidence, makes her smile every day, has a successful career, and is her protector.

- There are certain things you should NOT worry about changing, such as your...

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Comment below! Have you ever seen a couple where the woman was way more attractive than the man? Why do you think she is dating him?

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