I've heard this so many times from guys, I have to talk about this.

It goes something like this, "Dude, I made tentative plans with her to hang out this weekend and then on Friday afternoon I sent her a text asking if she wanted to get together on Saturday and she said she's busy! WTF, dude. WTF!"

NOTE TO INNOCENT EARS: WTF stands for What the French Fry!

NOTE TO SELF: I need French Fries! Craving. No! Not healthy! Must not eat! Will eat cake instead! Yummmm cake... with candles made of French Fries!

First... asking her out via text increases the chances she says, "No" by about 8 billion percent.

In video 346 I cover the ONLY times you should use texting while in the dating phase.

Watch that video. Here's the short version: Don't ask a girl out on text or email! Be a man and call her with voice!

Put some damn effort into it!

THINGS YOU SHOULD PUT EFFORT INTO
- courting a worthy woman
- your appearance
- that thing you do where they pay you -- oh yeah, your job

SLUTTY GIRL: Oh, I thought you were going to say that OTHER thing I do for money. Well I guess part of what I do is called a "job."

Most women like conversation. Learn how to MAKE a conversation! Video 308 will help you!

Asking her on a date on text is like being a grunting caveman.

YOU: Ooga-booga. Do u wanna hang out 2morrow? Me club animal. U cook. Caveman Smiley Face.

Secondly, "tentative plans" means you don't have plans. Sorry, you don't. Most girls are ALREADY very governed by "the moment" and their mood -- much more than most guys. And now you want to make plans MORE vague. Nope. Not good.

If you want to make sure the date happens you must...

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- You will have more success if you give her AT LEAST a few days notice before the date. Just like you don't want to look desperate, neither does she! Just like you wait 3 days to call her, she needs 3 days notice for the date.

- Be sure to be in communication with her leading up to the day of the date. Keep her feeling good about her decision to go out with you. But absolutely do NOT...

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Comment below! What do you think has caused girls to flake out on your date plans?

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