J in Chicago writes...

Bro,

Thanks a lot for your dating advice videos. They’ve helped me to open up around girls.

I've been dating a girl and I did not call her for 2 weeks because I think I was making myself too available for her and I wanted to increase her attraction to me.

Then I called her and she was very receptive and she went out with me on a Saturday night which she had always told me was not possible.

We had a good time... mmm... I ran out of gas like a dumbass but it was an opportunity for her to see how I act in crappy situations.

I actually apologized about it too. But anyway she doesn't want to get physical with me.

I put my hand on her back at times and at times she kinda shrugs me off. I find excuses to touch her hands or get her hair out of her face but still she just won't relax with that.

I can sense that she's been hurt before by guys that lie... so any tips to gain her trust to get more physical with her?

How bad did I screw up by running out of gas? LOL... to make it up I mailed her a purse and a short little poem that talks about why I'm kinda quiet but am asking for her patience for me to open up.

Thanks a lot for your help.

- J in Chicago

A purse and a poem! Wow!

I can imagine your poem...

Sorry I ran to out of fuel
On a day that was windy and cool
I hope you didn’t get a cold and a cough...
Here’s a purse! It was 50% off!

When girl doesn’t want to get physical, first check the body symptoms.

Your breath, your armpits, and your groin-danglers must all smell fresh.

But not tooooo fresh.

HER (talking on phone): Yeah, he smells soooo good. A little tooo good though. (whispering) His balls smell like tulips! (photoshop pic of tulips under the balls of a statue)

So... How to win the affection of a girl who does not trust men

#1 You MUST get her mega-attracted to you. Here are 4 dating advice videos that will help you: 198, 200, 332, and 335.

She likes you. But she doesn't CRAVE you. Get her to crave you!

#2 You must allow her to trust you.

Watch dating advice video 254 for help with this.

And...

Take your time with her. Even TELL HER, “I'm not in a rush to get physical with you. Because I really like you. If you need time, then it’s ok. I'm a very straightforward person so I will tell you that yes, I think about kissing you. And about holding your hand as we walk down the street together. And about what it would be like to your man and take care of you."

She WANTS you to win her. When a girl agrees to go out with you, she is saying 3 words...

This is taken from my Premium Members section where I post my new videos.

Here are some more tips, but only Premium Members get the entire video + access to over 125 full dating and relationship videos in the Video Vault!

- For the trust part... along with being patient you need to be sincere.

- Let her know WHY she's special to you... I think you're really special because -- then fill in the real reasons you think she's awesome. Make them unique insights.

- She wants to be attracted to you and to trust you. Other guys have told her she’s beautiful. Other guys have told her they like her. What makes YOU different? Why should she trust YOU? Why should she be attracted to YOU?

This is where you must...

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