I in Phoenix writes...

Hey Hog,

Thanks for all the awesome videos!

My question is, I was at this party and this really hot girl said I was cute. Twice! I got her phone number but then as I was leaving she said, "Are you OK to drive? Because we're friends now."

Did she just friend zone me?

She also complained that most guys fall in love with her right away and she hates that. And she also complained that the guys she's been dating have only been interested in sex and not a relationship.

For some background, she is 27 and I am 33.

Should I have stayed longer at the party? I was trying to play it cool. I like her so far. How should I go about this?

Thanks for your help!

- I in Phoenix

You sir, are the recipient of lucky timing! You have certain qualities already in place that she likes! Woo-hoo! Good work!

The lucky timing is that you ran into her when she's totally looking for a guy like you AND she's let you know about it!

In this situation your job is simple. Just 4 steps. D.F.I.U. Remember: D.F.I.U. Don't-F&^k-It-Up!

The hard part is done!

See, most guys have the most trouble with approaching a hot girl and then getting her attracted. THIS girl is ALREADY attracted to you!

When a hot girl tells you that you're cute, she's really putting herself out there. She is risking rejection. Hot girls usually don't do that. And many times these types of girls have fragile egos so if you don't ACT on her hint, she could get offended and embarrassed.

Did she put you in the Friend Zone because she said you two were now friends? Um, no.

She's saying that she CARES about you. She wants you to be safe.

She has given you the freakin' instructions how to win her! She straight up told you...

1 - Do not "fall in love" with me right away like these dorks who confuse infatuation with her looks with love.

2 - Do not be overeager to do the sticky-squishy-fishy-flop-dance. Don't be desperate.

She likes how you look. She is attracted to something in your overall aura. Now it's time to...

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- Get her on the phone WITH VOICE. Have a fun conversation. Get her to hang out with you.

- D.F.I.U.!!!

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