J in Connecticut writes...

Hello HogWild,

I've been thinking about something. Why is it that I love my dog so much even though he has accidents in the living room and doesn't listen to what I say. But with my husband, I get mad at him all the time for even the smallest thing. Maybe I should have married my dog. LOL.

- J in Connecticut

The secret to happiness -- not just in relationships -- but in life -- is managing your expectations and allowing people and life to exceed them.

When you expect the moon, you are disappointed when you only get a shooting star. When you expect nothing, you are thrilled by a slice of pizza.

Yay! Pizza!

Us humans become happy when our expectations are exceeded. When the experience is BEYOND what we expected, we get happy!

When an experience is below expecation, we are upset.

When the experience is at expectation, we are satisfied.

The problem is that most people keep their expectations...

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- Can a HUMAN meet your expectations? Or have you set up your partner for failure?

- When people feel like their partner isn't meeting their expectations... they act out.

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