D in Cincinnati writes...

Hello HogWild,

I'm not the type who would do anything behind a guy's back but my friends for some reason ask me, is doing it with a guy considered cheating when dating ANOTHER guy?

I wasn't sure how to answer them so I thought I'd ask an expert.

- D In Cincinnati

In some places, going on dates is equivalent to beginning a relationship. In other places, going on dates with someone means nothing as far as commitment. It's just a test drive. So in that case, those people feel just fine test driving other cars. Revving their motors. Grinding their gears. Backin' up the bumper. Checking for oil. Awwww! hahhaha

But I WILL tell you this... ladies, if you want the guy you are dating to stay attracted to you... do NOT let him know that you are sharing your um, heavenly hoo-ha, with someone else!

And guys, you can hint that you're seeing other girls if you want to increase a girl's attraction to you but do NOT give her a visual! And some girls get turned off by this all together.

People want to feel special and important. You can win their heart by giving them these feelings. You will lose them by making them feel unspecial and ordinary.

So even if in your culture it's OK to sha-boink others while dating... keep it quiet.

Another big thing is this...

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- Guys, if the girl you are "dating but not commited to" is opening her teeny tiny tee-pee to other men's totem poles... then she either 1 - is not looking for a relationship in general or 2 - she does not think a relationship with you is possible or 3 - a relationship with you is not desireable to her.

- A girl can say, "Just so you know, I don't mind if you're seeing other people. You should also know that I REALLY like you and I'm not the kind of girl who gets intimate without being in a commitment."

Then HE will say...

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Comment below! Do you think it's OK to sha-boink others while in the "dating phase" with someone else? Why or why not?