S in Ireland,

I've started seeing this guy who I've known for aaaaages so we know each other really well.

He texts me every morning and asks what I'm doing for the day but if I say, "Nothing", he says "Me too" and doesn't ask if I want to hang out or anything.

But this morning he asked if I wanted to do something later so I text back saying yeah and asking him what he wants to do.

He didn't text back for a while but later he said he was trying to figure out what to do but we still haven't organized anything and it's almost evening.

I know he doesnt just want me for sex because I see him about 3 times a week.

I don't think I should text him saying what's happening... do you?

Why is he asking me to go out and then not saying where he wants to go?

Thanks Hog. ;)

- S in Ireland

This is where girls can really over-analyze. Some dudes just don't have their sh!t together!

SIGNS THAT A DUDE DOES NOT HAVE HIS LIFE ALL TOGETHER JUST YET

- he has an older model cell-phone. With a rotary dial.
- when he says his car is "in the shop" he really means that it's in the car dealership because he can't afford to buy it yet
- he has trouble making decisions. When he goes up to the fast food take-away menu, he breaks out in a sweat

This is him at the fast food drive-thru (on his bicyle)
FAST FOOD LADY: Welcome to McFatties World of Saturated Fat, Home of the Double Cholesterol Burger with Bacon... may I have your order?
HIM: Um... um....
FAST FOOD LADY: Sir?
HIM: Don't rush me! I don't know what I want! I just don't know!!! I need some time!

See, this guy could really just not know where the heck to take you. Or he's indecisive.

You have 4 choices for how to deal with him...

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- If you really really like the guy, then your part is to increase his attraction to you (watch my other videos for how to do this) and be patient.

- He's like eggs and flour and sugar. He has the INGREDIENTS to be a yummy boyfriend-cake... but YOU have to bake it. Some girls prefer cake that's ready to eat.

Life is short. Your youth is shorter. Squeeze the juice out of your life and enjoy it! Don't let it sit around and ROT. If you stay with an Indecisive guy too long, then you are risking...

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Comment below! Girls, have you ever been with a guy who can't make decisions? How did you feel about it? Guys, are you comfortable making decisions in a relationship?