J in Chicago writes...

I really like this girl at my job but she has a boyfriend.

We flirt at work a lot so I asked her to hang out but she turned me down. Now I feel rejected. But I still really like her. How do I get her to hang out with me?

- J in Chicago

the fact that she has a boyfriend means she CAN’T go out with you without looking like a slut-face slut-bag. You can’t expect a girl with a boyfriend to agree in advance to a planned out date or hangout unless... you are mega-smooth and play the friend-card.

Or... she is close to breaking up with her boyfriend.

Or... you are a celebrity techno beat master DJ and she is from Europe where they appreciate that crap.

NOTE TO EUROPEANS WHO LOVE TECHNO: Cut it out! If you're going to keep alive stuff that was popular in the 1990's, please also consider bringing back grunge music and the high-top fade. Haha. Psyche!!!

You can't expect a girl to commit premeditated cheating. Get her to...

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- You can't seduce a person who is completely satisfied. They aren't looking. So you need to find out what she LACKS in her relationship and offer THAT to her.

- Like most things in life, it comes down to the equation of anticipated pleasure vs. anticipated pain.

On the pleasure side, what are you offering this girl? What pleasure does she THINK you can give her?

Well that's not enough if her pain side of the equation includes things like...

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