J in Chicago writes...

Bro,

Your videos are awesome and hilarious.

OK, I need your opinion. I work with this girl. There will be days when we flirt all day long but sometimes she will back off and be less responsive. I on the other hand will play it cool. I stay friendly but I don't go out of my way for her.

Basically, I keep acting like a gentlemen and she also continues to smile and be nice but it's just different, now she won't be as bubbly. She'll be regular. But on the inside I'm like what the <bleepin' bleepers!> You were all teasing and asking questions yesterday and now what?

(He used a lot of filthy words so I'm changing them to bleeps for our more bleepin' uptight members. hahahha)

Sometimes bro I think I play it tooooooo cool like I don't give a bleepity bleepster whether she comes or goes but sometimes I do say flirty stuff like talk about her hair and stuff that shows interest.

She invited me to a church dinner (she's really into church) and I said yes at first but backed out because I don't think she followed through with her invitation (in my eyes) she didnt really ask, "so are you going?" so I didnt go.

So anyway, I like her! I've shown it, but I haven't said it. She shows interest in me and she'll compliment me on specific things.

So basically how much more flirting before I just <bleeping> say, let's go to a movie? Or is she just flirting and not wanting anything more?

- J in Chicago

How can you be trying to get with a church girl with that kind of dirty bleepin' language?!

HER: Thank you for attending my Church dinner with me. I hope you enjoyed the service. Wasn't it a beautiful tribute to our Lord and Savior?

YOU: ......... bleep yeah!

Of COURSE she is losing interest in you and not flirting as much! You bleepin' snubbed her!

Listen, when a girl asks YOU out -- invites you to something -- that takes A LOT of mother bleepin' courage on her part. Think of how tough it is for you -- a guy -- to ask out a girl and risk rejection. Multiply that by a thousand for a girl.

Then you agreed to it but didn't go! Why? Because she didn't "follow through" with her invitation? What the bleep is that?!

She invited you! Do you expect her to BEG you, too?!

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- The thing that complicates this is that you work together. If you don't care about the job, then you can be as aggressive as you want. But if the job is important to you, then you need to be ready to smooth things out if for some reason she doesn't want to go out with you.

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